Posted on Tuesday, December 26, 2017
A female friend of yours has started acting differently, and you are curious whether she likes you or not. Therefore, you need to know her feelings before doing any move either to get her or to determine the future of your friendship. Every relationship is challenging if there is a lack of communication or miscommunication. Therefore, it will be hard for you to continue your relationship even if you both want the same thing without talking. You want to be sure about her feelings before talking to her or making a move to get her. You are right to think that way because no one wants to take the wrong actions and lose a friend or a future girlfriend forever. To be sure about how your female friend feels about you, you need to pay attention to the things she does. If you have already realized that she does unusual things around you or changed her attitude towards you, you can figure out what is going on. Some signs are listed below to let you know about these things.
1. She wants to spend more time with you
If your friend suddenly wants to spend more time with you than usual, it might be a sign that she has started to like you more than a friend. However, she might want to hang out with you as a friend for now. If she likes you, she will take a lot of time to leave when you are together. She will be patient with you and never rush things. She will want to see you more and accept all your offers to hang out, or even she can offer you to hang out. If you think you see each other more often these days, consider that she might like you.
2. She always has an excuse to see you
As I have just explained, she will use every opportunity she has to talk to you or to see you. She might call you in the middle of the night to ask you something that has no importance. She might come to your place because she wants to talk to you. She will be extra attentive when you are together, and she will always meet you on time. Most importantly, she will never ditch you up. No matter how busy she is, she will always have time for you. That's because she likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
3. She makes plans
If she wants to see you more, making plans is the only way to do it. Probably, she might get bored of making up excuses to see you and decide to take some action. She will make plans especially for you, two, and start to see other friends less. Even if she is hanging out with those other friends, I am sure her plans will involve you. She might invite you to the activities with her friends whom you do not even know. She will want to introduce you to her friends and see what they think about you. Now, isn't it obvious that she likes you the most among all her friends?
4. She is always excited around you
If you want to know how she feels about you, you need to observe her mood when she is with you. She will get excited about even the littlest things like finding an empty seat while you are looking for a place to sit at a cafe. She will be happy all the time not because you find an empty seat just because she is with you. Nothing will be more important to her than being with you at that moment. If you realize that she ignores her priorities or totally forgets about her problems when you are around, that's because she is too excited to think about anything else but you. On the other hand, this excitement can hold her back. She might even get too eager to talk to you or look at you, which causes her to look more energetic. Also, there are people who are quite good at controlling their reactions or hiding their emotions so you should not decide before really understanding her reaction. Excitement could be good or bad for her yet as far as it exists it's a good sign for you.
5. She wants to get your attention
If she likes you, she will pay attention to you and the things you care about. She will want you to pay attention to her as much as possible, so she might talk too much. She might even talk about the most unnecessary stuff on earth like potato chips or ice-cream cones only for your attention. Probably, she does not even know what she is talking about because of the excitement. Be patient with her fired-up behaviors and talks because she wants you to focus on the speaker rather than the speech. She will say everything in her mind loudly so that she can get your attention. She will try to show you every interesting thing even when they are not that interesting. If you see that she acts excited only around you, clearly she likes you.
6. She touches you quite often
If your friend likes you, she will touch you more than a friend should. She might do it unconsciously or on purpose. No matter how this happens, it means she is attracted to you. It is very normal for two friends to touch or hug each other from time to time. It is not usual to hug your friends at every chance you find, though. For example, she might touch your knee when you hold a conversation. Of course, these touches do not matter, but the number of these touches matters. Even when you see something nice in a shop, you want to touch it and see how the material feels. She wants to be close to you and feel you, that's why she touches you that much.
7. She is always curious about you
If you do not like talkative people, it is a pity because speaking tells a lot. If your friend is too curious that she talks and asks too much, she might be into you. She asks about your favorites, family, friends because she is interested in you. To get a better idea of you, she might ask about your dislikes as well. She will want to know what pleases you and bothers you because she wants to please you, not bother you with all those questions. If you are interested in her, give her the details and see her adapting to your favorites and hobbies.
8. She always looks good around you
If she likes you, she will want you to like her back. Probably, she will be wearing makeup all the time. She will wear nice clothes around you. She will try to look so pretty all the time that she might get obsessed with her look. By doing so, she wants you to get attracted to her. Moreover, she will wait for you to compliment her. If you are into her, do it immediately because it can take your friendship to another level.
9. She stalks you
If she likes you, she will get curious and want to learn everything about you. Thanks to technology, it is now easy to do it just by spending some time on social media. If she stalks you, that does not necessarily mean that she likes you. She might be just curious about your posts on social media. But, listen carefully now, and pay attention to what I'll say. If she likes one of your posts, especially the very old ones, it is clear that she is into you because it means she spends hours on your profile to see everything you posted before. Sometimes, things can get out of control with a single move of your fingertips. She might like one of your posts accidentally while stalking. When it happens, you should know that she likes you, and she is stalking you but does not want you to know it.
10. She gets jealous
If she likes you and wants a relationship with you, it will drive her crazy to see you hanging out with other girls or just talking to other girls. The fact that you are not aware of her attention and flirt with other girls might upset her so much. Besides, she will want you to spend your time with her, not other girls. If she gets jealous, do not wait for her to say that. You can understand it watching her attitude. Another clue is that she will probably not say good things about other girls. She might even get mad at you for no reason because she is jealous. She might not want to see you for a while. Jealousy is a good sign that she likes and wants you for herself only.
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