Posted on Friday, December 15, 2017
Over the years, both technology and traditions have developed a lot. Thanks to technology, dating is a little different but much easier than before. There are plenty of dating applications, dating sites, and even dating TV shows. Online dating is relatively straightforward and less time-consuming than the conventional way. If you want a faster way of dating with online dating, you need to be careful not to waste your time on the wrong people. As you do not always have enough time or chance to know someone very well when online dating, there are some facts that you need to know about men to decide whether he is someone for you or not. There are certain types of men who cannot bring any good into a relationship. Instead, they drive their partners crazy throughout the relationship. That's why I have decided to write this week's post about this topic to warn you, girls about wrong men and to save your time. Before I start I want to clarify that we are not judging men here, on the contrary, we accept men as they are. We know every man has a personality and personality is not something that changes in time.
1. Too Flirtatious Men
This type of man might not seem to be a problem. At first, you might think that he is just feeling the heat between you too much. As you get closer and the relationship gets more comfortable, you will see no difference in his flirtatious attitude. Again, this might not seem to be a problem for you. However, you start to see that he is always flirtatious not only with you but also with other women too. His attitude can bother you, and you might want to talk to him about it. No matter how much you talk to him or argue with him, be sure that he will not see this as a problem. That's the way he is, so his attitude will seem quite natural to him, yet you will be the one who causes trouble in the relationship bringing the subject over and over. As you see him flirt with other women despite your presence, trust me, it will drive you crazy. Plus, he will be flirting with others during the lack of your presence. If you keep arguing with him about this inappropriate attitude, he will be disturbed a lot, which will cause him to go out without you. He will no longer feel comfortable around you because you are the one exaggerating things. Still, none of these mean that he is cheating on you. Some men like flirting, and they cannot help it. He might be in love with you deeply, yet he will not change his attitude despite his love.
2. Men Who Are Sports Fans
No matter which sports your fan boyfriend is into, he will be obsessed with it, for sure. Probably, he will want to arrange all your plans, and this will look adorable to you. When you notice that all your dates are in a stadium or a court, you will see his real face, the real face of a sports fan. You might like sports as much as he does, and this might not bother you, on the contrary, you might enjoy your dates a lot. Commonly, this is not something you can see through the pink glasses. The only reason why he is arranging your dates at sports events is that sports are the only precious things in his life that no one can beat, not even you. If he is not obsessed with sports too much, then he should spend some time with you without sports interfering. He can do his sports thing when he is alone. Even when you are at home chilling, he will turn a sports news channel on, which will interfere with him concentrating on you. Dating him but never being able to be with him will be annoying a lot.
3. Men Who Cheat
Even if your boyfriend is a has-it-all type, do not let these things blur your mind. Sometimes, one thing can say more than all. Especially the mistakes people make tell a lot about their personalities. If your boyfriend has cheated on you, you are likely to know some facts that I will mention here. I will not tell you not to forgive him. I am here only to explain certain types of men. Forgiving him or not forgiving him is all up to you. Even though he has not cheated on you, be sure that he is not a cheater. Before you forgive him, I just want you to think there is a saying ''Once a cheater, always a cheater''. No matter what happens in a relationship, there is always a way out. And, this way is not secretly seeing someone else. This type always denies the crime until he gets caught. After getting caught, he thinks it is his right to be forgiven. This type of man has some outstanding features alongside cheating. They lie all the time because they have to lie not to get caught. Surprisingly, they are almost too afraid of losing their partners. Cheating does not necessarily mean that they do not love their partners. Usually, they are so in love with them, but they cannot help playing, that's all.
4. Men Who Are Social Media Addicts
These men seem nice and social until you see that they are not only using social media, they are obsessed with social media. They are always busy with their posts when they are with you. Their problem is that they can never get enough of social media. If your boyfriend is a social media addict, you might get bored of him very quickly. You will be seeing him all the time on social media might end your excitement and make you want to stop seeing him. He might spend time checking other people's posts as much as his posts. He might post things that will upset you to get a few likes. He might turn any situation into a social media post that will cause you not to have any privacy. If you are so jealous that you do not want your boyfriend to flirt or talk to other girls, this type is not for you. He will be interacting with almost everyone on social media. Even if he does not flirt with other girls, girls might flirt with him. And, you will get mad all the time seeing him talking to other girls and spending all his time not for you but for people he does not even know in person.
5. Stupid Men
Unlike other men types that I have told you about, stupid men are the worst. They can not understand your needs or your expectations by themselves. Sometimes, they are not even aware of a relationship's essentials. You always have to tell them and explain everything. Most of them are so immature that they can become needy. You have to be around all the time to help him. When you are together, you will spend your time trying to make him understand you or the things you say. Explaining everything you say or your jokes will get exhausting. In a relationship, thinking at the same pace and in the same way with your partner is so essential that it makes your life easier. You expect him to surprise you in some way, which is just not possible with these men. They can not even think of remembering details or your favorites because they do not know these are important. They might say embarrassing things in front of your friends or family. The worst thing about them is that they always ask silly questions. Girl, do not do this to yourself. This man will be sucking the desire to live out of you. Just stay away from him. You can know if he is a number 5 type of man or not even from his opening lines when you match with him.
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