Posted on Wednesday, March 14, 2018
As you might know, everyone gets a sad face when they learn that you are single. Is it because being single means that you are cursed or damned? I don't think so. Most people think that being single is sad because they have wrong conceptions about being single. Besides, they feel that the singles also do not like being single, or it is not their decision to stay single. They are not aware of the fact that a person might not want a relationship for some time or forever. It is not a curse to be single. It is a choice. Maybe, some people get the same wrong conceptions about themselves when they are single because of the common belief. However, let me explain why they are wrong. Then, you will see you are missing nothing except a Valentine's Day gift.
1. If You Are Single, You Are Undesirable
Wrong! A person's current relationship status cannot determine their charm. It means that person does not want to be in a relationship, or could not find anyone they like. If you are single too, stop worrying about your physical appearance or your characteristics as a person. You are fine. It might take some time for you to realize that you are the one who does not want to commit to a relationship. Being attractive can change from one person to another, so it is quite a subjective matter to have a certain idea. Namely, you might not be attractive for some, but there are still millions of people who would find you attractive in the whole world.
2. If You Are Single, There Is Something Wrong With You
Wrong again! There might be hundreds of reasons why you are single and having something wrong with you is not one of them. You might be a great person, but you couldn't find a person that you trust or you like yet. Consequently, it does not mean anything other than you are just single. Just try to stay away from those kinds of thoughts because they will only make you doubt yourself and kill your self-confidence.
3. If You Are Single, You Are Lonely
Even a person in a relationship has friends and family. Why wouldn't you have any friends or family? So, it is wrong to think that way. It might even be the reason why you are single. If you can get enough love from your family and friends, you might have no need for any more of it. You might be having more fun with your friends than you do in a relationship with a partner only. You should just do what you want to do no matter what common beliefs are. Keep going to parties with your friends, get drunk and have fun instead of going on a boring dinner date with your partner every day if you want.
4. If You Are Single, You Are Currently Looking For a Partner
There is no way that a person can look for a partner all the time. It is tiring and time-consuming, so you cannot just spend all your time looking around and trying to find an attractive person to be in a relationship with. There is also another possibility that you might not want a relationship for the time being. Of course, no one thinks about that possibility. They just pity you because you are single without knowing how much you enjoy being single. You should just keep enjoying your single life and try not to hear those misconceptions about your life.
5. If You Are Single, You Will Always Be Single
People usually have a specific idea of something, and they never expect it to change. So, people around you might think that you will stay single forever. Of course, there is no such thing. The moment you find the one for you, you will no longer be single. Other misconceptions of being single might direct people in a wrong way too. If they think you have a problem and it is the reason why you are single, they might think it is reasonable for you to be single. It might even be true, but don't forget about a tiny detail that you are single not because no one likes you. You are single because you haven't found the one, or you just do not want a relationship. To show people that they are wrong about these thoughts, you should not be unhappy about it. Just smile as much as you can and keep enjoying your life going to parties with your friends or alone. Show everyone how happy you are as the person you are.
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