We all think we know what love is until someone wants us to define it. Then, we will take some more time thinking about it twice because none of us really know what love is. Love is the most beautiful and the most terrifying thing that can ever happen to you. It is the most ambiguous thing that still keeps its nature as a secret. People have been wondering a lot about love, yet only a few things have come to light so far. Still, many things are unknown about love despite various scientific and sociological studies. However, we still cannot be sure if we are in love or not because of the excitement, tension and the confusing feelings that love put us all through. You can be sure you are in love with someone after realizing certain things that you haven't before. You can see the specific signs that can make you realize that you love someone. And you will certainly know if you are in love.
You Can't Stay Away From Them If you are in love with someone, you can't stay away from them. Your eyes will look for them everywhere you go, and you can't have fun when you don't see them. You start to go to the places where they go just to see them or talk to them. You can't stop staring at them when they are around. Besides, you can't take your hands off them. You always want to touch them. That's why couples hold each other's hands or hug each other all the time. You will not want to be without your loved one even for a minute. You never get bored of anything you do with your partner because you are happy as long as you are with your partner. Kesha made it so clear in her song that love is a drug that you get addicted, and you can never get enough.
You Get Scared And Jealous There is no doubt that love makes you much more emotional than usual. Apart from being emotional, you slowly start to get different feelings that haven't gone through before. You might get scared to make something wrong and lose your partner. This feeling can hold you back in the relationship, so you should try not to exaggerate it and ruin everything. You can get jealous of your partner as well. It is quite a natural feeling if you are in love, but you have to pay attention not to overreact things over jealousy. Since jealousy has a certain boundary that you cannot cross, you need to be sure that you let your partner live as an individual. I am sorry to say it, but excessive jealousy is the reason why most of the relationships end.
You Do Not See Any Flaw When you fall in love with someone, you see your partner as a perfect person who has no flaws at all. Yes, the reason why you think in that way is love. Even if you know your partner has some flaws, you will know how to accept those flaws. Your loved one's flaws might even seem cute to you. No matter what other people say or think about your partner, you just keep loving her/him without any hesitation. It is love, so you can't just quit loving people just because they have some flaws like everyone else. You just learn how to accept them with, or without their flaws and it will also make you more mature as a person. You will see that some flaws can be so cute, that you will get udes to them.
You Become A Better Person After falling in love, you will see how essential being happy is and how much love can make people happy on its own. So, you try to make people happy instead of ignoring them. You begin to change and become a better person unconsciously. Sometimes, your partner can make you realize the things that you haven't been aware of before. Thus, you both become better together. Love also makes you more energetic than the usual. So, you become a happier person, and you get a kind attitude about everything. How can you not be a happier person with butterflies in your stomach? Love is the magic making the world a better place for us all.
You Know Everything About Them When you fall for someone, you want to learn everything about your loved one because you get curious about them. No matter how much you can learn, you do your best. You learn what you have to learn either by stalking them or asking them. You want to see your partner's childhood photographs and want to know his/her family as well. You can remember everything about your partner without thinking for a second. Forgetting a single thing about your partner will be the hard thing for you, not remembering every detail about them.
You Get Distracted Easily Well, I don't see the need of telling you that you put love in the center of your life, so you can't get your partner out of your head. Never. You get distracted with a ringtone hoping it is your partner. And you stop to answer him/her as soon as possible. You always think about your significant other, so you cannot focus on anything even if you want to because your mind is always busy with thinking about him/her. You start seeing everything through the pink glasses and through those glasses you see nothing but your significant other.
You Get Sleek To fall in love with someone, you need to get attracted to someone. When you do, you want them to get attracted to you as much as you do. So, you start to take better care of yourself. You pay attention to what you wear and how you look all the time, especially when you are with them. You become your best self around your partner. The only thing you want to get their appreciation and their compliment so that you can be sure they love you too. It is good to be sleek all the time, but there is only one thing that you need to realize. It is that your partner does not love because of your look. Your partner loves you because of your personality, so you do not have to restrict yourself too much to look nice all the time. Trust me they will think that you are beautiful no matter what, and you do not need to feel insecure about yourself, ever.
You Cannot Sleep Or Eat Love makes people so nervous that they cannot get enough and proper sleep. You think about your relationship and your partner all the time even when you do not have any problem. So, your significant other becomes the first thing you see before going to sleep and the first thing that comes to your mind when you wake up. You might even see them in your dreams as well. All these just causes you to lose sleep. Since your heart pounds so fast and you feel so strange all the time, you lose your appetite as well. You might finish your meals earlier just to meet your partner. You might leave the table to answer their message and forget to go back to dinner because your significant other becomes the only crucial thing for you to live. You are right, though. A world without love is not worth living.
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